My husband very young died 20 years ago. He was a policeman and local scout leader. The police photographer took very unobtrusive shots ( I didnt even know he was there) and especially pictures of the police and scouts escort. A couple of weeks after the funeral a police welfare officer brought them round for me all beautifully mounted in an album. I treasured them and was able to see people and things that I wouldnt have noticed in my grief. I still have the album. Many people thought its strange but I appreciated it.