Good luck Clive, I've done several for friends and family, sometimes as THE photographer and sometimes as a guest - both stills and video. The agreed story board - decided on by the couple in discussion with me beforehand - was an absolute essential. The best man and ushers had copies and also had the task of being whippers in - herding the guests around. I usually had a mate whose work I knew as backup and he used to do the candid shots while I did the formal plus some candid as the opportunity presented itself. Now I've finally got some sense and don't do it at all - it's too much like hard work
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